Tuesday, May 20, 2025

How Did They Meet?

 I am inspired today by the Genealogy Tip of the Day newsletter sent out by Michael John Neill.  What caught my eye was this:

"Determining how your ancestor met their spouse can be an interesting genealogical endeavor. It may not even be possible to do anything other than conjecture about their meeting. But at the very least, researching them with the intention of discovering how they met may result in new information–even if it has nothing to do with their marriage."

I know how my mother and father met, because my mother told me.

Mom was raised in Pensacola, Florida, and graduated from Pensacola High School in 1935.  My father, raised in Pasadena, California, graduated from the U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, Maryland in 1934.

Dad had always been interested in flying, having been a member of the "Aero Club" at Pasadena High School/Junior College, a combined educational institution.  After graduation, Dad served on an aircraft carrier, and, in 1937, was chosen for flight school at Pensacola Naval Air Station.  Ah, fate.

My mother could be very determined.  Once she made up her mind to do something, it was going to be done come Hell or high water.  She and her friends, the social elite of Pensacola, would hang out at the Officers' Club at NAS Pensacola to see who they could meet.  My mother told me that she spotted my father across the proverbial crowded room, and decided, "That's the man I'm going to marry."  Dad's fate was sealed.

She most likely introduced herself to him, rather than wait for someone else to arrange an introduction.  And the rest is history.

They were married 16 July 1937.  These wedding pictures are hand-colored and mounted on tiles of porcelain.




Monday, May 19, 2025

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 21 -- Military


This week in 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks, Amy Johnson Crow asks us to post about the military members in our family history.

Here's a roster of military service in my family:

8x-great-grandfather Samuel Packard served in King Philip's War (1675–1678).

My 4x-great grandfather Richards Packard served in the American Revolution (1775-1783). 

My great-great grandfathers Mathew Hale Packard and Charles Reed served in the Civil War, for the Union (1861-65).

My great-great granduncles Thadeus Bullock Packard and William B. Packard served in the Civil War, too, also for the Union.

My husband's great-grandfather, Daniel McLeod Marshall, served in the Civil War, for the Confederacy.

My father, Arden Packard, served in the U.S. Navy in World War II (1939-1945).

My father-in-law, Leonard Marshall Rhodes, served in the temporary U.S. Coast Guard during World War II.

My husband's grandfather, Andrew Lewis Rhodes, served in the temporary U.S. Coast Guard during World War II.

My brother, Arden "Ned" Packard II, served in the U.S. Marines in the VietNam War (1955-1975).

My husband, Keys Rhodes, and I both served in the U.S. Coast Guard in the Cold War (1945-1991).

 We were surprised to find that my husband's father and grandfather had been in the Coast Guard before he was.  We had thought he was the first in his family to serve in the USCG, but he was actually the third.

I was the first woman in the Packard-Reed family to enter military service. 

We're proud of our service and of our families' military tradition.

 

Saturday, May 17, 2025

Randy Seaver's Saturday Night Genealogy Fun -- Did You Have Fun This Week?

This week, our Saturday Night mission from Randy Seaver's Saturday Night Genealogy Fun is:

1) Did you have good genealogy fun this past week?  Did you add to your family Tree?  Did you make a great discovery?  Did you try something new?  Did you make family history?

2)  Share your genealogy fun in this past week on your own blog post or in a Facebook, SubStack or BlueSky post.  Leave a link on this blog post to help us find your post.

First, you need to understand that I am a research nerd.  I like sitting down and poring through books and documents and newspaper archives and all that.  I love poking about in the past, for a variety of reasons.  

My family history relates to Jacksonville, Florida in many ways, reaching back to when my father was stationed there in the U.S. Navy during World War II.  We lived there for a brief while in the very early 1950s, when I was a wee one.  My mother brought me and my siblings back to Jacksonville after my father died in 1954, and I've been in or near Jacksonville ever since, with two years out for when my husband was in the Coast Guard stationed in St. Petersburg, Florida.  Place is also an important part of our family history.  So it's no surprise that, upon joining the Society for One-Place Studies, I picked as my one place the city I consider my home town:  Jacksonville. 

So I have been having fun for the past few weeks writing a series on the history of the consolidation of Jacksonville with Duval County in 1968.  It surprised me and my husband, who was born and raised there, that the history of consolidation in Jacksonville goes back to 1923, when an attempt was made to pull off the consolidation of city and county.  Another try in 1933 also failed.  Success finally came in 1968.

My interest in the subject stems from having been a student at Florida State University at the time, and having been a government major.

So you can see the origin of this rather warped sense of fun that I have.But it's my fun.  If you'd like to join in that fun, you can try my One-Place Study blog at One-Place Study: Jacksonville, FloridaIn addition to the series on consolidation, I've written about the days when Jacksonville was the place to make movies before Hollywood, California, was a gleam in anyone's eye, about shopping in Jacksonville when I was young, and about a sorry chapter in Jacksonville's history, the day known as "Ax Handle Saturday."

Friday, May 16, 2025

16 years? It's been 16 years?

 Today is my blogiversary!  It was 16 May 2009 when I started this blog.  That's 16 years.  Doesn't seem like that long.  

I've had times when I had so many ideas I had a hard time choosing from day to day.  I've had times when either the well of ideas ran dry, or life interfered with my blogging.  But I'm slogging the blogging, forging ahead stubbornly.

I own my stubbornness and come by it honestly -- I'm a direct descendant of Massachusetts Puritans!

Sixteen years.  Wow!

Tuesday, May 13, 2025

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks - Week 20: Wheels

This week in 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks, Amy Johnson Crow asks us to post about wheels in our family history.

In the spring of 1850, my great-great granduncle Major W. Packard set out from Bloomington, Illinois, with a wagon train to the gold fields of California -- to Sutter's Mill.  No, he was not going to pan for gold.  His purpose was simple curiosity, as he wanted to observe and write about the people who were attracted by the possibility of becoming rich by coaxing shiny little flakes out of streams.

He made some sharp observations about the gold-attracted:  "Now it is the nature of such news that the further it travels, the bigger it gets, and the more wonderful.  So it is not strange that when the news of the discovery reached us in the then border states, the size of the sand-like particles really found in that far-off, insignificant mill-race, had increased to very respectable nuggets."

On setting out from St. Joseph, Missouri, Wellman (as he's known in the family) observed other wagon trains preparing, in his opinion inadequately, for what was to come.  "[V]ery many started out without the necessary preparation, and suffered the penalty of their want of foresight in much suffering and unnecessary hardship and privation."

At one point along the journey, the travelers encountered one of the enormous buffalo herds that once roamed the plains, this one in full stampede and "bearing down directly upon us in fine style, causing no little apprehension for our safety."   Men from the wagon train, mounted on every horse in the party's possession, rode out with screams and gunfire aimed so as to frighten, not harm, the beasts.  They concentrated their attention on the patriarch buffalo leading the herd, and managed to turn the herd so that it avoided the wagons and their human population.  As the herd turned, and the rear of the huge long line reached the mounted men, a designated few set after them with firearms, and brought back two tender specimens to furnish a celebratory feast.

 A different sort of wheels played a big part in my mother's family, the Reeds of Logansport, Indiana.  Francis Harvey Reed, my maternal great-grandfather, was a conductor for the Pittsburgh, Cincinnati, Chicago, and St. Louis line, known by the nickname "Panhandle Route."  The line was part of the Pennsylvania Railroad system.  

My grandfather, Benjamin Franklin Reed was a switchman in the Wabash yard in Detroit, Michigan.  He was hit by a yard engine in October of 1917, and died, leaving his wife with three small children.  My mother was not yet a year old when she lost her father.

Perry Wilmer Reed and his wife Mary LeSourd adopted my mother after her father died.  Perry was a general freight agent with the Pennsylvania System, based in Chicago.  He was licensed to practice before the Interstate Commerce Commission, representing his employer.  In 1920, he moved the family to Pensacola, Florida, where he became the general freight agent for the Gulf, Florida, and Alabama Railway.

My husband's grandfather, Andrew Lewis Rhodes, was a conductor for the Pullman Company.  He lived in Jacksonville, Florida, and covered routes all over the state.  When my husband was a little boy, he would from time to time ride with grandpa on the train.

 References:

Packard, Major Wellman.  Early Emigration to California, 1849-1850. (Fairfield, Washington: Ye Galleon Press; reprint of the original, 1971). 

You can read more about my railroad Reeds in my post from last year, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks - Week 28: Trains

"Employee's Statement of Compensated Service," (Form AA-15), dated Nov. 19, 1938, Andrew Lewis Rhodes pension file, Social Security Number (redacted for security reasons); National Archives Record Group 184: Records of the Railroad Retirement Board, 1934- ; RRB--Congressional Inquiry Section, Chicago, Illinois, United States.

Sunday, May 11, 2025

Randy Seaver's Saturday Night Genealogy Fun: Celebrate Mother's Day

 Today - Sunday, 11 May 2025 -- is Mother's Day.  Our Saturday Night mission from Randy Seaver's Saturday Night Genealogy Fun :

1) Sunday, 11 May is Mother's Day in the USA.  Let's celebrate it by showing some of our photos with our mother.  

2)  Extra credit:  What did you call your mother during her life?  What did your children call your mother?  

3)  More extra credit:  Have you written a biography or tribute to your mother?  If so, please share a link if you have one.

4)  Share your photo(s) on your own blog post or in a Facebook or SubStack or BlueSky post.  Leave a link on this blog post to  help us find your Mom photos.

 

Mom, grandma Mary LeSourd Reed, and my sister Betty, 1940.


Mom in 1917

 

Mom on the beach in Pensacola, around 1935

 

Mom and Dad, Pensacola, about 1953

I called my mother "Mom" all my life.  Well, when I was little, it probably more often came out "Mommy."  It got funny when my daughters were little, and asked their grandmother Packard (Mom) what they should call her.   She sat very erect, put her nose a little in the air, and said, "Call me grandmama," with the accent on the first syllable, the "r" trilled in upper-class fashion, and her pinky lifted -- and a twinkle in her eye.  So she was grandmama to our daughters until she shuffled off this mortal coil.

I'm working on a biography of my mother on WikiTree.  I'll spend a little time on it today, probably before going to our older daughter's for Mother's Day cake and ice cream.